About — Creative Living Strategies
Divorce Doula · Creative Life Strategist

Your divorce isn't the end
of the story. It's the plot twist.

I help women of faith navigate divorce with strategy, emotional clarity, and a framework for what comes next — because how you move through this shapes your life for years.

"The end of a matter is better than its beginning, and forward movement is better than anticipation."Ecclesiastes 7:8

Chantay Sanders, founder of Creative Living Strategies

"Did I fail God?" — this is the question most divorce coaches never touch.

You did everything right. You honored your vows. You prayed. You forgave. You believed God was working it out.

Except it didn't work out the way you hoped.

Now you're facing divorce, and alongside the legal, financial, and emotional weight of it, you're wrestling with something deeper. Somehow the expectation and outcome of faith don't align. I don't just validate that feeling, I help you examine the teachings that got you here, and find the difference between godly conviction and man-made religious conditioning. One leads to freedom. The other leads to bondage.

And if you're not a Christian or not religious? The principles still apply. Covenant, grace, freedom, intentional rebuilding — these aren't exclusively Christian ideas. I respect your belief system while helping you access what actually serves you.

"Your commitment to covenant wasn't a waste — it was a learning."

CDC®

Certified Divorce Coach

AC®

Certified Creative Living Strategist

MBA

Business & Marketing

20+ Yrs

GE Capital · Citibank · eBay · Sony Music

I am the GPS. You are the driver.

I combine strategic planning, emotional exploration, and faith-grounded coaching to help you move through divorce with intention. I don't offer toxic positivity ("Everything happens for a reason!") or toxic negativity ("Men are trash"). I offer positive realism: an honest assessment of your situation, the belief that you're capable of rebuilding something better, and a process to get you there.

I care about your decisions without being invested in them. I have no skin in your game — your choices don't directly impact my life. Which means I can walk alongside you objectively, with the safe distance that allows me to challenge you when needed and celebrate you always.

Women of faith navigating divorce, career transitions, and the reinventions that follow.

What I Mean By Divorce

It's rarely just the marriage.

When I say divorce, I don't only mean the one on paper.

I mean anything you're ready to let go of — the job that stopped fitting, the belief system that no longer holds, the version of you that was built to survive something you're no longer in.

Most women in my world are navigating a marital divorce, and that work is sacred and specific. But underneath it, there's almost always a second, quieter divorce happening — from an old identity, an old story about who you're allowed to be, a faith framework that got twisted, or a role you outgrew long before anyone noticed. Letting go of what no longer works for you is the same courageous, disorienting, holy work — whether it's a husband, a career, or a version of yourself. That's the work I help you do.

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Your Creative Revolution

Not divorce-specific — this is for anyone, in any season or relationship, ready to let go of what no longer fits and get intentional about who they're becoming.

Tracks II–IV are especially suited for the first three trimesters of divorce. Not sure which season you're in? Take the Fourth Trimester Quiz →

II

Live Happily Never After

For stay-at-home moms rebuilding after divorce.

III

Embracing Life as a Free Agent

For wives of coaches and athletes navigating public divorce.

IV

Standing in the Shadows of Faith

For women fighting for reconciliation while navigating divorce.

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90-Minute Intensives

To reach clarity, get unstuck, or strategize your most pressing challenge.

A note for the men reading this: My heart and primary focus is walking alongside women — but I also coach men navigating divorce and life transitions who are looking for this same blend of strategy, emotional clarity, and faith. If that's you, I'd love to hear your story too.

Your wins are my joy.

You deserve a coach who understands that your divorce isn't just a legal or financial problem to solve. It's a spiritual and emotional journey to navigate.

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